JAY – Jody William Diaz, 51, of Jay, died unexpectedly Friday, May 8, 2020 at his home in Jay.
He was born in Farmington, Sept. 3, 1968, a son of Jose William and Janet L. (Allen) Diaz and was a 1986 graduate of Jay High School.
He worked in construction for many years at J. W. Diaz, Inc. and enjoyed reading; especially about history and travel as well as the daily newspaper from front to back. Jody was an avid sports fan, having been a fan of the Patriots and Red Sox. He was very personable and a”true conversationalist.”
He is survived by his mother, Janet Diaz of Turner; sisters, Terri Shaw and her husband, John of Wilton and Crystal St. Onge and her husband, Phil of Winslow; twin brother, Jon Diaz and his wife, Amy of Jay; sister-in-law, Judy Diaz of Jay; several beloved nephews and nieces.
He was predeceased by his father; and a brother, Allen Diaz.
Jody lost his battle with his substance abuse disorder and because of that his family asks that those who desire, consider memorial gifts in his memory to The Family Restored, PO Box 10116, Portland, ME 04104 or at www.thefamilyrestored.org where the funds will be used to make treatment possible for someone struggling with addiction. Services will be held at a later date with interment at Jay Hill Cemetery.
The family asks that memories be shared in his Book of Memories at www.wilesrc.com.
Cremation care has been provided by the Wiles Remembrance Center, 308 Franklin Road, Jay.
It is with sadness, unbelief, anger, compassion and heartfelt sympathy that we extend our thoughts and prayers to Janet, Terri, Crystal, Jon and all family and friends of Jodi. I can still see the little babies when I visited to see the newborn twins. Later when we became neighbors, Jodi was one of the neighborhood children who grew up with our boys. Birthdays, sleepovers, pool parties and numerous occasions come to mind. Sunday School, Youth Group and Bible School, as well as Jr. Choir bring pictures to my mind’s eye of that little boy with his special smile. The last time I saw Jodi was the afternoon I delivered Christmas Bread to Jon at Rent A Tool. Jodi had been affected by substance abuse at that time but his smile was unchanged. I have a picture taken with both Jon and Jodi.
Well, I believe God in his wisdom decided enough was enough and now holds this precious one in complete health; free from his addiction. To the family, it is my prayer that His peace and knowing others are lifting you in prayer will bring comfort during this time and the days to come. To friends, may God bring peace to you as well as you process the passing of this young man. And, may we all work together to rid our community of this ongoing problem that needs to be addressed!
With love and prayers,
Ruth True and Paul Berkey
Jim and I are both so sorry to hear of Jody’s passing. We’d like to offer our sympathy to the entire family. Our prayers are
with you all.
Terri, I am so sorry for the loss of your brother. My sincere condolences to you and your family.
Crystal, I am so sorry for you. I hope that you are well and can move on. Be well.
The Diaz household was my 2nd home growing up. So many fun memories. So many memories of Jody, the younger brother of my best friend. He was always friendly, respectful and so full of life (and a little bit of trouble) To this day, if you ran into Jody he could talk forever – never had a loss for words, and always a big smile. My last conversation with Jody was him telling me and my husband (one of his best friends) how happy he was for us – that it should have happened years ago. My heart and deepest condolences go out to such a wonderful family. Love you guys!!
Janet I’m so sorry to hear of your loss you are definitely in my thought and you know you are always in my heart. I remember back in my Chuckwagon days I have seen Jody at his best and maybe his not so best but who hasn’t had those days at the wagon.
One thing I can say without a doubt he was always very respectful kind and funny. He was definitely loved by many . He will definitely be missed❤
The Sabin and Owen Taylor family extends their condolences to the Diaz family. This is a terrible loss to your family who has suffered so much loss already.
I am so very sorry for your loss. Prayers for you all.
My heartfelt sympathies to you Janet and your entire family. I am so very sorry to hear this.
My heart is sad and heavy to hear of Jodys passing. I helped with Jr Church at Jay Baptist and had the twins in class. Talk about cute. No matter when I saw Jody he always took the time to have a conversation.
Our very deepest sympathies to Janet, Crystal and family, Terri and family, Jon and family as well as Judy and family. May God grant you peace. Love, Dave and Kim Cook
My most sincere condolences to the Diaz family in the passing of Jody, 💔
Ohhhhh, “jodog”…how this news sadness’s me, you was an exceptional person with a heart of gold and a brain of amazement. Our talks about nonsense.. to learning me some sports stuff I didn’t care about. You will be one soul I will never forget. Pass a hug along to “Tom Ouellette” ..aka “TO” for me..really hope the peace is within you my dear friend 🙏…love ya ol boy
Our thought are with you all🙏
Love and Prayers, to the Diaz family, I remember Jody classmate from school, and Sunday school.
My heart goes out to the entire family. I am so extremely sorry for your loss .
Janet & family. Words cannot express how awful we all feel for all of you. Be strong at this difficult time. Addiction is a bad thing very difficult to control. Two gone so young . I will keep you in my prayers.
I am so sad for the entire family! 😢
My deepest condolences for your loss ,especially Janet, because I know her heart! 💔
The Demons that won with Jimmy took Jodi too.
Jodi was a very good friend to Jimmy. He really wanted to help Jimmy, but he was ill himself.
He was always kind and respectful to me…with a big smile and hug. .I did love him & , prayed for him daily!
I wanted him to beat the monster! But God knew his pain, just as he knew Jimmy’s.
Well, they are in Heaven now…….of that I am sure!🙏🏼
Now I will pray that other friends addicted will learn by their demise!
Please get help so your families are not destroyed! ♥️
I am so very, very sorry for your loss. I had a lot of fun hanging out with Jodi back in the day. It is a true tragedy.
My condolences to family and friends. I feel easy knowing he is free now.
Dear Janet, I can not even imagine your pain. I’m sending my prayers and love to you .
Prayers for the family. So sorry for your loss. Special prayers for precious Amy.
Always enjoyed seeing Jodi in the shop when I worked in the area.
Great attitude and sense of humor. Rest in Peace, Sir.
My condolences and prayers Janet, to you and your family. I am so very sorry for your loss. I only met Jody once and he was so sweet, polite and a pleasure to chat with. Rest in Peace Jody.
The Diaz household was my second home. It was the funnest place and always had lots of people visiting the twins. Janet was a saint to let us spend all the time we did there. I will remember my friend Jody and all the great times we had together growing up and in our young adult years. He was a true friend and I have missed him dearly for quite a while. I do hope to see him again and will always have good thoughts about him. To his family who treated me like their own I can’t express how sorry I am and will cherish the time I got to spend with all of you especially the saint Janet-who put up with all our crap. I will miss you Cuz
Jody my kids and i will miss u dearly and i so glad you and tommy were friend and we all spent some time. Togther. With cookouts and watchung football. It sucks u had to go but you and tomny can hang al the tume again. We well miss u dearly my freing he help me and tommy and my kids out when we need it the most. Thay family is gereat he not just a friend he a brother from other mother love and miss u Jody. Til we met again my friend R.I.P